Hentrich,
I suppose only a few can destroy or overcome the Puppet Master. We are built or programmed, as I said, for orgasms. Nothing new. The problem is repression and it is much worse when you are a part of a "dysfunctional", how psychologists love this term, family. We have dark desires and needs and specially those with sadistic sexual fantasies. Whether we like or not, these people suffer too. And they do everything to satisfy their intense compulsions. The problem is in the human brain.